Goliath

People Who Shaped David:  Goliath
(1 Samuel 17)

1.      I have in my office a little stone.  On the surface it looks like an ordinary rock, but it is anything but ordinary to me.  This little stone is special to me because of where I got it.  Just to the southwest of Jerusalem there is a valley called the Elah Valley.  One of the significant events in Jewish history took place in the Elah Valley.  That is the place where the famous confrontation between David, who at the time was a young shepherd boy, and Goliath, who was a fierce Philistine worrier, took place.  Through the center of the Elah Valley runs a little brook.  From somewhere in that brook David took the stone that he used to kill Goliath.  On our last trip to Israel we stopped along that brook and picked up some stones and that’s where I got this one.
2.      Now I’m not naïve enough to believe this stone was in that brook when David faced Goliath.  As a matter of fact, I strongly suspect that the Israel Department of Tourism or some other such group, trucks stones like this to the Elah Valley from all over Israel so tourists like me can pick one up!  Nevertheless, the stone is special to me because I did get it in the place where David faced Goliath.
3.   Nearly everyone knows the story of David and Goliath.  It has become part of the folklore of human history.  In the Bible, the story is found 1 Samuel 17...look there in your Bible...want to begin by quickly overviewing  the chapter...then, a little later on I will direct your attention to some specific verses in 1 Samuel 17...
·         The armies of the Philistines and Israelites were squared off for battle... each occupied a mountain on opposite sides of the Elah Valley...
·         Goliath was a Philistine warrior...not just run of mill warrior...was a super star...9 feet tall...armor weighed over 150 pounds...just tip of spear weighed 15 pounds...NFL coach would have drooled over him... would not doubt have been a first round draft choice! 
·         Goliath walked into valley separating two armies...challenged Israel to send a single warrior do battle with him...if Goliath won Israel would become servant of Philistines...if Israel’s soldier won, Philistines would become servants of Israel...for 40 consecutive days made challenge each morning and each evening and no soldier in Israel would stand up to him...
·         David’s three oldest brothers –Eliab, Abinadab, Shammah-- were fighting in the army of Israelites...David, who as a shepherd at time living with his father, Jesse, in the area of Bethlehem…his father sent him to take supplies to his brothers...
·         When David arrived on scene and heard Goliath’s challenge, he was offended that no-one had courage to stand against him...he went to King Saul and offered to face Goliath for Israel...Saul’s initial reaction was to say, “No way!”...he pointed out the obvious...David was only a youth and Goliath was a seasoned warrior who had been fighting sense his youth...
·         But David insisted and Saul was desperate for someone to face Goliath, so he consented to let David do so, even though he was certain that David could not win...
·         Well, the rest, as they say, is history...shunning the armor Saul offered him and using his slingshot with which he had become proficient as a shepherd, David sent a rock into Goliath’s forehead... the rock knocked the giant to the ground and with Goliath’s own sword David severed his head...
·         And instantly, David became a national hero...
  1. That’s a feel good story...
      --little guy beats big guy...
            --underdog overcomes great odds...
                  --the good guy wins when no-one thought he could...
But I don’t think God recorded this event in Bible just to make us feel good...it is in the Bible to teach us some crucial lessons about life...

T.S. - All of us from time to time face things in our lives that appear to be gigantic…some problem, some obstacle, some issue that seems to be so big, so overwhelming there seems to be no hope of overcoming it and we feel that we are about to be crushed.  From the encounter between David and Goliath, there are some principles that we can learn which will help us such through times in life.  I want to share with you in summary fashion four principles that will help us overcome the giants we sometimes face in life.

Principle 1 - Remember that things are not always as they first appear
1.   At first glance Goliath appeared to be invincible...just his size alone was enough to strike fear into the Israelites...it’s important to understand that the men who made up the army of Israel weren’t wimps...these were seasoned warriors...they had been in many battles...they were skilled in hand to hand combat...by this point in time that had been in wars for years...the weakest ones had already been weeded out...only the strongest, the bravest remained...however, these strong, brave men saw no way to defeat Goliath...verse 11 tells us that in the presence of Goliath “...they were dismayed and greatly afraid.”
2.   And at first glance David appeared to have no chance at all against the giant...everyone thought David was the underdog...Saul told David in verse 33, “You are not able to go against the Philistine...”...this story has become a metaphor for a person facing seemingly impossible odds...
3.   But things weren’t as they first seemed...Goliath wasn’t invincible...he ended up with his head severed from his body...and David wasn’t really an underdog...truth is, in this battle, the real underdog was Goliath...that’s because the hand of God was with David...

1.  Important lesson in that...we must not forget that God is at work in the world...and sometimes He is about doing things which are not readily apparent, especially to the casual observer...what may appear to us to be a crushing blow or insurmountable obstacle, may be something God uses in our lives to make us better person or to demonstrate His power or faithfulness in our lives…
2.  There is an ancient story which has its roots in China.  Over the years I have read several different versions of this story. 
One day in late summer, an old farmer was working in his field with his old sick horse. The farmer felt compassion for the horse and desired to lift its burden. So he let his horse loose to go the mountains and live out the rest of its life.
Soon after, neighbors from the nearby village visited, offering their condolences and said, "What a shame.  Now your only horse is gone.  How unfortunate you are!. You must be very sad. How will you live, work the land, and prosper?" The farmer replied: "Who knows? We shall see".
Two days later the old horse came back now rejuvenated after meandering in the mountainsides while eating the wild grasses. He came back with twelve new younger and healthy horses which followed the old horse into the corral. 
Word got out in the village of the old farmer's good fortune and it wasn't long before people stopped by to congratulate the farmer on his good luck.  "How fortunate you are!" they exclaimed. You must be very happy!"  Again, the farmer softly said, "Who knows? We shall see."
At daybreak on the next morning, the farmer's only son set off to attempt to train the new wild horses, but the farmer's son was thrown to the ground and broke his leg.  One by one villagers arrived during the day to bemoan the farmer's latest misfortune.  "Oh, what a tragedy!  Your son won't be able to help you farm with a broken leg. You'll have to do all the work yourself, How will you survive? You must be very sad".  they said.  Calmly going about his usual business the farmer answered, "Who knows? We shall see"
Several days later a war broke out. The Emperor's men arrived in the village demanding that young men come with them to be conscripted into the Emperor's army.  As it happened the farmer's son was deemed unfit because of his broken leg.  "What very good fortune you have!!" the villagers exclaimed as their own young sons were marched away. "You must be very happy." "Who knows? We shall see!", replied the old farmer as he headed off to work his field alone.
As time went on the broken leg healed but the son was left with a slight limp. Again the neighbors came to pay their condolences. "Oh what bad luck. Too bad for you"!  But the old farmer simply replied; "Who knows? We shall see."
As it turned out the other young village boys had died in the war and the old farmer and his son were the only able bodied men capable of working the village lands.
3.      The cross and resurrection is a perfect example of this principle...the cross seemed like the ultimate defeat of Jesus...it appeared to be the end...He was dead...His enemies had prevailed...or so it seemed...but in reality, it was His greatest moment of victory...at the precise moment when Satan thought he was defeating Jesus, Jesus was winning the ultimate victory over sin and death...and His resurrection is the confirmation of that...
  1. One thing David learned from his confrontation with Goliath and that we can learn from this event is things are not always as they appear...

Principle 2 – Understand the importance of prior preparation
  1. Saul objected to David facing Goliath because Goliath was an experienced warrior and David was just a youth with no battle experience...in verse 33 Saul said to David, in effect, “You aren’t prepared for this.  Goliath is an experience warrior and you are only a youth.”...but David told Saul in verses 34 & 35 that he was, indeed, prepared…he had already had some experience at facing ferocious adversaries...said that as shepherd when a lion or bear attacked the sheep under his care, he would fight them off, rescue the lamb from their jaws, and kill the predator... 
  2. Came across an interesting statement as I was preparing for this sermon...one person wrote, “You will never defeat the giant until you defeat the lion and the bear.”...like that...is reminder that the experiences of today are constantly preparing us for bigger and more significant experiences tomorrow...because David had fought the lion and the bear and because he had no doubt practiced for hours with his slingshot, when the opportunity came to face Goliath he was prepared...

  1. In virtually every arena of life, preparation and attention to detail are the keys to success...that’s true in the realm of--
--academics – My wife, Carol, was HS math teacher for nearly 25 years...one thing I noticed over the years as she interacted with her students is how many students suddenly decide get serious about their grade as the end of the semester approached...but it was those students who studied along the way and had done the work who succeed in making good grade...
--athleticsBen Hogan was one of the greatest golfers who ever lived.  He won 63 tournaments even though he was nearly killed in an auto accident at the height of his career.  After his accident the doctors said he would probably never walk again, much less play golf.  But through hard work and dogged determination he made it back to the PGA Tour.  His motto was, “Every day you don’t practice is one day longer before you achieve greatness.”  [Quoted by Phil Mickelson in One Magical Sunday]  And what was true for Ben Hogan is true for every great athlete.  Those who are the most successful are those who have paid the price in preparation.
--work place – Go into any major corporation or business...will discover that those who have made it to the top are the ones who have paid the price in preparation and in faithfully carrying out the assignments entrusted to them...in the business world, success breeds success...
--spiritual realm – The person who makes the effort to nurture his/her spiritual life...to spend time in God’s Word, prayer, fellowship with God’s people, developing personal relationship with the Lord ...the person who is faithful in doing the small things God calls us to do, is the person to whom God entrusts larger things...
2.   And the reason God chose David to face Goliath and the reason David was successful is because, even though he didn’t realize it, all of his life David had been preparing for that moment…

Principle 3 - Deal with the giants as they come up in your life
  1. Someone has said, “If you have to swallow a frog, don’t look at it too long.”...not bad advice...to put off doing the things we find difficult or unpleasant only tends to make them worse...
  2. That little detail in verse 16 about Goliath taunting the Israelites morning and evening for 40 consecutive days is interesting...can imagine what those Israelites must have thought...each day as Goliath marched out in full battle gear to taunt and challenge them he must have looked bigger and more ferocious...the longer they waited to deal with him the more invulnerable he appeared...
  3. David took just opposite approach...read carefully 1 Samuel 17 several times this week...clear implication is David killed Goliath on first day he saw him...saw Goliath challenge Israelites in morning...when came back for evening challenge David was there...
  4. Don’t want you miss significance of that...while we shouldn’t be hasty and imprudent, it is almost always better to deal with the giants as they come up in our lives...David certainly did...

Principle 4 – Trust God more than you trust yourself
  1. When get right down to it, basic difference between David and Goliath is that Goliath’s trust was in himself...his size, strength, ability as warrior...David’s confidence was in God...
  2. Just before going to battle Goliath, Saul, who did not share David’s confidence in God, insisted that David wear his armor...verse 39 says that when David was all suited up he “...tried to walk...”...the implication is that the armor was too heavy for David...so David took it off and insisted on going into battle with only a stick in one hand and his slingshot in another...
  3. One of the great statements in the Bible is what David said to Goliath in verse 45 – “You come to me with a sword, a spear, and a javelin, but I come to you in the name of the lord of hosts…”  That’s picture of a person who is confident in God...David knew who he was in relation to God and knew all he needed be victorious was God’s presence in his life...

  1. When we remember to trust in God and not try carry whole load or fight the battles in our own strength, life is infinitely better...in NYC there is a startling contrast...on 5th Avenue, at entrance of RCA building is a gigantic statue of Atlas, the perfectly proportioned man...the world is on his shoulders...and with his muscles straining under the load, he is doing all he can to hold up the world...he’s just about to buckle under the load...across the street on 5th Avenue is the majestic St. Patrick’s Cathedral...behind the altar is another statue...this statue is of Jesus as a young boy, perhaps eight or nine years old...He has a hand outstretched and with no effort whatsoever He is holding in the palm of His hand the world...
  2. We don’t have to carry the whole load or to wear someone else’s armor to overcome the giants we face in life...all we have to do is depend on God...
Conclusion
1.      While I do not know your life situation, my experience tells me that most, if not every one of us in this room, at this very moment are facing some kind of giant in our lives…what do we do when the giants appear?...how do we overcome them?...do what David did when he faced Goliath—
Remember that things are not always as they first appear

Understand the importance of prior preparation

Deal with the giants as they come up in your life

Trust God more than you trust yourself


2.   That’s the way to overcome the giants which challenge us...

Saul

People Who Shaped David:  Saul
 (1 Samuel 16:21-23; 18:5-12; 24:1-7)

1.   It is one of the most interesting and complex relationships to be found on the pages of God’s Word...on one hand these two men were in many ways alike...they were both--
            --described in scripture as “handsome” men...
            --mighty warriors who conquered the enemies of Israel...
            --natural leaders whom others gladly followed...
            --extraordinarily gifted and talented men...
      On the other hand, they couldn’t have been more different...
            --one is said to have had an evil spirit on him while the other is said to have had the Spirit of God on him...
            --one was more comfortable with a spear in his hand while the other was more comfortable with his hands wrapped around a harp...
            --one was small, petty, jealous, and insecure while the other was self-assured and confident...
            --one was rebellious toward God while the other, even though he made mistakes, was a man after God’s own heart...
2.   If you haven’t already guessed it, I’m referring to Saul, the first King of Israel, and David, the second King of Israel...in this session, as we continue looking at people who shaped David’s life, going to focus on the relationship between David and Saul...
3.   While don’t want to sound irreverent or be guilty of trivializing the word of God, feel compelled to tell you that I can’t read the story of Saul and David in the OT without thinking of my favorite cartoon when I was a child...for some reason (and there’s probably some deep psychological reason which we won’t explore) I always liked watching the adventures of Wiley Coyote and the Roadrunner...every cartoon has the same plot...the coyote tries to capture or kill the roadrunner and his scheme always backfires, coming back to harm him...that’s the way it was between Saul and David...Saul became obsessed with doing harm to David...but no matter what he did, his schemes always seemed to come back to harm not David but himself...
4.   Story of Saul and David stretches over the last half of the book of 1 Samuel...begins in chapter 16 and ends with the death of Saul in chapter 31...want to read three vignettes from this story which I believe capture the essence of their relationship...
            --1 Samuel 16:21-23 – Relationship didn’t begin contentious way...saw last week first part ch. 16 Samuel anointed David be future king...after that, two things very quickly happened...Spirit of Lord came mightily on David...departed Saul and evil spirit terrorized him...his advisors suggested that soothing music would help Saul deal with evil spirit...David played harp and was summoned to play for king...look at 1 Samuel 16:21-23 (text)...
            --1 Samuel 18:5-12 – In ch. 17 is famous confrontation between David and Goliath...explore that in future session... made David national hero...and this is when trouble between Saul and David began...look at 1 Samuel 18:5-12 (text)...
            --1 Samuel 24:1-7 – Saul made it passion of his life to pursue David for purpose of killing him...look at 1 Samuel 24:1-7 (text)...

T.S. – There are many lessons to be learned from the relationship between David and Saul...want to share with you in this session two very practical lessons...

I.    Not everyone is going to treat us with fairness and kindness
1.   When was child sometimes my parents would make decision I didn’t like...I would complain, “That’s not fair!”...and you know their response...”Well, life’s not fair!”...not only is it true that life sometimes not fair, but people are sometimes unfair also...that is not kind of thing we want to hear, but it is certainly something we need to know...most of us have already learned this lesson in the hard school of experience...
2.   When first began working in church setting, as most young ministers are, I was rather idealistic and somewhat naïve...thought everyone in churches just naturally loved each other...that was before  met a man I’ll just call Mr. X…he was a rough concrete contractor who didn’t seem to love anybody, especially the people on the church staff where I served when I first left seminary...seem to make it his personnel goal to harass, intimidate, and berate those who served in the church...was impossible to please...if staff said white he would say black...if staff said right he would say left...didn’t take much time around that man for me to figure out that not everyone is fair and kind...

1.      Think that’s a lesson David learned from Saul...while David probably could have used better judgment in how he related to Saul, he really didn’t deserve the way Saul chose to treat him...
2.      Why did Saul behave the way he did toward David?...think there are essentially two reasons:
            --He had a spiritual problem – Several times in the passages I read from 1 Samuel the Bible speaks of an “evil spirit from God” coming upon Saul...the idea that an evil spirit would come “from God” is troubling...most scholars interpret that phrase to mean not that God sent the evil spirit but that God allowed the evil spirit to trouble Saul... what want you to see in that is Saul had a spiritual problem ...was out of fellowship with God...and invariably one result of being out of fellowship with God is divisiveness and strife with God’s people...as I’ve told you many times before, if always find yourself in conflict and disagreement with others, better check relationship with God...Saul’s spiritual problem was one thing that drove him to treat David so unfairly and unkindly...
            --He had an emotional problem – The problem was jealousy...in 1 Samuel 18:7 the women were singing “Saul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands.”  How painful those words must have been for Saul to hear... he began to see his popularity being eroded by David and jealousy began to eat him alive...jealousy is a terribly debilitating emotion...in Galatians 5:20 it is listed among the works of the flesh along with such things as immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, drunkenness and the like... reason jealousy is such a negative emotion is that it invariably arouses in us other negative emotions...look at 1 Samuel 18...case study in what jealousy does to a person... made Saul--
                  --angry“Then Saul became very angry...” (v.8)
                  --suspicious“And Saul looked at David with suspicion from that day on.” (v.9)
                  --fearful“Now Saul was afraid of David...” (v.12)
      And at the root of Saul’s unfair treatment of David were his spiritual and emotionally immaturity...

  1. What mean to our lives today?...what’s the application?...what should we learn from this?...the lesson want you to see is not that we are to assume that anyone who is unfair toward us is necessarily spiritually and/or emotionally immature...the lesson is that we are to guard against spiritual and emotional immaturity in our lives which will lead us to be unfair, unjust, harsh, condemning, critical, and impossible to please...
  2. For when we live that way, not only do we make others miserable, we make ourselves miserable as well...I saw that in the man I described earlier...not only did he have way of making others unhappy, he had permanent scowl etched on his face which was just the outward sign of a shriveled, bitter inward spirit...
  3. We need to learn to pray what David prayed in Psalm 139, “Search me, O God, and know my heart; try me and know my thoughts; and see if there be any hurtful way in me.” (Psalm 139:23-24a)

II.  We are not to return evil for evil or mistreatment for mistreatment
  1. There is something in us which drives us to get even with, to strike back at those who do us harm... it is natural for us to desire to retaliate...
  2. David had perfect opportunity do that in relation to Saul in 1 Samuel 24...in that cave in the wilderness of En-gedi David could have easily taken Saul’s life...David’s men encouraged him to do just that...but instead, David merely cut off part of Saul’s robe and then showed it as evidence of his lack of desire to return evil for evil...
  3. This concept of not returning evil for evil (speaking of personal relationships not national policy!) is fully developed in the New Testament.  Remember what Jesus said in Matthew 5:38-45.  Also, Paul develops this them in Romans 12:14-21.  Those statements do not mean that Christians are to be the doormats of world.  They do not mean to be good Christian we must sit back and let anyone do anything he/she may desire do to us.  After all, David didn’t lay down and let Saul take his life.  However, they do mean that followers of Jesus should not be dominated by a vengeful, get even type mentality.  They mean that when someone does something, either inadvertently or on purpose, that harms or offends us, our immediate response should not be to find way strike back or get even or do even worse to that person.  And there is a good reason we should avoid that kind of spirit.  A vengeful, get even type mentality will inevitably do us more harm than person at whom we are striking back.  A vengeful spirit will eat us up on the inside and make us sullen, sour, unproductive people.
  4. WHEN SOMEONE HARMS US WE ARE TO SEEK THE BEST FOR THEM - Jack MacGorman in commentary on Romans makes this astute observation: "THE WORLD AT ITS WORST RETURNS EVIL FOR GOOD.   THE WORLD AT ITS BEST RETURNS GOOD FOR GOOD AND EVIL FOR EVIL.  BUT THE FOLLOWER OF JESUS CHRIST IS COMMANDED TO RETURN GOOD FOR EVIL."  [LBC]  The clear teaching of the Scripture is that we're to do good to all people, even to those who do not do good toward us.
                        --v.14 ‑ "Bless those who persecute you; bless and  curse not." (Give them a blessing instead of a curse!) 
--v. 20 ‑ "But if your enemy is hungry, feed him, and  if he is thirsty, give him a drink..."
Just as there is a practical reason for not being characterized by vengeful spirit, there is also practical reason for doing good to those who do harm to us.  The most effective way of getting rid of an enemy is to make the one who is an enemy a friend.  We must be careful not misinterpret statement about heaping "burning coals upon his head" in verse 20.  The Scripture is not saying we should be kind to our enemies so they will suffer more.  The idea is be kind so that our kindness may move our enemy to repentance and reconciliation.  Most commentators say the "burning coals" refers to the burning shame a person feels when evil is met with kindness.  The practical reason for returning evil for good is that doing so may have positive influence on those who are the recipients of the good.

  1. Adrian Rogers, Mastering Your Emotions...Edwin Markham, poet... retirement...discovered banker had defrauded him...no money to retire ...bitter, angry, resentful...sat around for days thinking ways to get even...during that time, even though needed to, was unable to write any poetry...said God seemed say to him, “If do not lay this to rest, will destroy you...cannot afford price you are paying for your vengeful spirit...”...decided lay aside resentment and stop trying to do evil to the man who had so harmed him...amazing thing happened...poetry again began flow from his pen...wrote what perhaps became his most famous lines:  “He drew a circle that shut me out—heretic, rebel, and thing to flout.  But love and I had the wit to win:  We drew a circle that took him in!”
  2. And from David’s example in relation to Saul we can learn that we are not to return evil for evil or mistreatment for mistreatment...
Conclusion
1.   The lessons that David learned from Saul are clearly demonstrated in the life of Jesus, who is referred to as “the Son of David” at least 12 times in the gospels...
                  --who was ever treated more unfairly than Jesus?... the spotless lamb of God, perfect, without sin,...yet dying on a cross for the sins of others...
                  --who was ever more gracious in the face of unfair treatment than Jesus?...not returning evil for evil or hate for hate, but offering forgiveness to those who killed Him...

2.   May we learn and live those lessons in our lives...

Samuel

People Who Shaped David:  Samuel
 (1 Samuel 16:1-13)

1.   Peanuts cartoon...often ill-tempered Lucy and affable Charlie Brown in deep conversation...talking about what wanted be when grow up...Lucy, who is notorious for being bossy and not being able get along with people says, “I think I want to be a doctor.”... Charlie Brown says, “You can’t be a doctor.  Doctors are supposed to love humanity.”...after giving it some thought Lucy replies, “I do love humanity.  It’s people I can’t stand!”
2.   Suppose from time to time all of us feel that way...we just get enough of people...just need to get away from them...even Jesus on occasion withdrew from the crowds and His disciples to spend time alone with God...but truth is, can’t live our lives in isolation from people...we need people and people need us...to a large degree we are who we are because of the influence other people have had and continue to have on our lives...
3.   As we continue our study of some of the key characters in the Bible, in this session we are going to begin focusing on David…he is, without doubt, one of the most influential and interesting people in the Bible --David...
--David is mentioned by name more than 1000 times on the pages of God’s Word...that is three times more than Abraham’s name is mentioned and even more than Moses...and what may surprise you is that David’s name appears on the pages of Scripture more than the name of Jesus, even though the whole message of Scripture points to Him...
--David is well-known among religious and non-religious people alike...Hollywood has made movies about him...artists have sculpted him...parents have named their sons after him... almost everyone knows something about David’s life...
--One of the interesting things about David is that his life is full of paradoxes:
·         He was called described in Scripture as “a man after God’s own heart” (cf. Acts 13:22 and yet he not only took another man’s wife (Bathsheba) but he also took another man’s life (Uriah)
·         He was tremendously successful as the leader of a nation and a colossal failure as a leader of his family
·         He was a fearless warrior who stood his ground against a giant and the mighty Philistines, yet he fled in fear from Saul.
4.   The story of David’s life is found basically in the books of 1 & 2 Samuel, 1 Kings, and 1 Chronicle...and one of the things I noticed about David is how his life was shaped by other people...he was shaped by people who believed...misunderstood...challenged... loved...disappointed...warned...confronted...served...needed...and followed him...there is no way to tell the story of David’s life without looking at the lives of those who shaped him…
5.   The first person to shape David’s life, outside his immediate family, was Samuel…Samuel’s story is told in the book of 1 Samuel…the highlights include:
·         1 Samuel 1-2 tells of his unusual birth to Hannah and Elkanah and of his dedication as a young boy to serve in the temple at Shiloh with Eli…the name Hannah gave her son “heard of God”or “God has heard” (shama – heard and el – God)…
·         1 Samuel 3 tells of his calling to be a prophet…three times the Lord called to Samuel in the night and Samuel thought it was Eli…Eli told him when the Lord called again to say, “Speak, Lord, for Thy servant is listening.”…the last part of 1 Samuel 3 says all of Israel, from Dan to Beersheba, knew that Samuel was confirmed as a prophet of the Lord…
·         Samuel ministered during the period of the judges over Israel, but the people longed for a king as other nations had…Samuel warned them of the danger of having a king, but the people insisted and the Lord told Samuel to appoint a king over Israel…after a nationwide search, in 1 Samuel 10 Samuel anointed Saul as the first king of Israel…
·         Saul, on whom we will focus next week, did not live up to his potential and was rejected by God…the Lord instructed Samuel to anoint another king of Israel as Saul’s successor…that’s where Samuel’s and David’s paths crossed…the story is told in 1 Samuel 16:1-13…

T.S. – In Stephen Ambrose’s excellent book on D-Day he tells on an interesting thing that happened on he eve of the Normandy landings…late in the evening of June 5, 1944, as paratroopers preparing board planes to be dropped behind enemy lines, General Eisenhower showed up to encouraged them...he walked among the troops, many of whom would die that night, expressing his confidence in them...men who saw/heard him said would never forget his words of encouragement to them...

And I suspect that’s how David felt about this action of Samuel toward him...probably all of his life David looked back on this moment when the great prophet said, “You are chosen by God to be king of Israel.”

Nothing more encouraging to person than have someone say, “I believe in you...have confidence in you...know you can do it...”...and from Samuel’s example in relation to David, want to share with you some principles which will help us be encouragers of the people around us...

I.    Principle 1:  To be an encourager of others we must not let bad experiences with some people sour us on all people
1.   Notice question v.1 – “How long will you grieve over Saul, since I have rejected him from being king over Israel?”...Saul had been great disappointment to Samuel...old man when anointed Saul king...had high hopes for the brilliant and handsome young man...Samuel hoping for Saul take his place, not as merely political/military leader of Israel, but as spiritual leader of Israel...but didn’t happen that way...Saul deliberately walked outside God’s will...brought upon himself, his children, and his nation serious consequences...
2.   That brought great grief to Samuel and to the Lord...last verse of previous chapter says, “And Samuel did not see Saul again until his death; for Samuel grieved over Saul.  And the Lord regretted that He had made Saul king over Israel.” [15:35]... and apparently this grief made Samuel reluctant to entrust to anyone else the mantel of leadership...and the Lord tells him, “Quit grieving over Saul...get yourself together for I have another leader for you to anoint.”

  1. Lesson in that for us...few people make it through life without being deeply disappointed and hurt by some other person...may be—
--parent who didn’t give attention/direction needed...
--spouse who is abusive emotionally or physically...
--friend, co-worker who takes advantage/uses/lies...
--some stranger who is rude/insensitive...
2.   If not careful can allow the hurt caused by some person in past to make us suspicious/untrusting of all people...I’ve know people who wake up everyday mad at world because of something some person did to them long ago...can easily transfer to those around us in the present our anger/hurt/disappoint which is really aimed at some other person and situation from the past...
3.   We must be careful not to allow our disappointment with some people make us untrusting/suspicious of all people...for doing so will cause us miss opportunity of offering encouragement to those around us who need encouraging...if Samuel would have kept his focus on his disappointment over Saul, would never gotten to point anointing David as future king...

II.  Principle 2:  To be an encourager of others we must learn to see people as God sees them
  1. When Eliab, the first son of Jesse, was brought before Samuel, Samuel was impressed with what he saw...Samuel’s first thought, based on outward observation, was “This must be the one!”...but look at what God said to Samuel in v.7 – “Do not look at his appearance or at the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”
  2. We must never forget that God has unique way of looking at people...He sees things we cannot see...while we tend to focus on the outward and the obvious, God focuses on the inward and the not so obvious...while invariably see what a person is and has been, God sees what a person can become...
  3. Robert Kennedy is given credit for saying, “Some people see things as they are and ask ‘Why?’  I see things as they could be and ask “Why not?’”...when it comes to people, we must learn to view them, not so much as they are, but as they could be... that’s what Jesus did...He looked at—
--man like Simon Peter and saw much more than what others saw...instead of hot-headed, impetuous, impatience, rough fisherman, he saw a potential leader of his band of disciples and the early church...
--man like Saul and saw much more than angry, legalistic Pharisee...saw the church’s first great missionary/ theologian..
--woman like Mary Magdalene and saw much more than soiled person with questionable reputation...saw devoted follower who would be first to get news of His resurrection...
--the brothers James and John and saw much more than just the sons of thunder, as they were nicknamed...in James saw first of the 12 disciples to be killed for his faith...in John saw man with sensitive spirit who would write about 1/5 of NT...
4.   To encourage others we must learn to view them in terms of their potential...not just what they are, but what they can be...

III. Principle 3:  To be an encourager of others we must learn to be sensitive to God’s Spirit as He leads us in relating to them
  1. Want you get in your mind scene being described in this chapter...apparently Jesse knew that Samuel was looking to anoint a future king for Israel...so he began to pass his sons one at a time before the great prophet...first came Eliab, the one Jesse apparently thought had best chance of being anointed... Samuel said not the one...then came Abinadab...then came Shammah...then came four others who are not named here... each time the response was same...he is not the one...when asked if any others, Jesse says as almost after thought, “Well there is the youngest...but he is tending sheep.”...and Samuel sent for him and of course he was the one...
  2. What want you see in that is the contrast between Samuel’s sensitivity to Lord’s leadership in relation to David and Jesse’s insensitivity...how encouraging must have been to David, who was overlooked by his own father, to be summoned by the great prophet...
  3. One thing can learn from that is importance of being sensitive to God’s leading us in dealing with the people around us...
One man who was ousted from his profession for an indiscretion took work as a brick carrier simply to put bread on the table. He was suddenly plunged into a drastically different world; instead of going to an office each day, he was hauling loads of concrete block up to the fifth level of a construction site. Gone was the piped-in music in the corridors; now he had to endure blaring [boom boxes]. Any girl who walked by was subject to rude remarks and whistles. Profanity shot through the air, especially from the foreman, whose primary tactics were whining and intimidation; "For---sake, you---, can't you do anything right? I never worked with such a bunch of --- in all my life..." 
Near the end of the third week, the new employee felt he could take no more. "I'll work till break time this morning," he told himself, "and then that's it. I'm going home." He'd already been the butt of more than one joke when his lack of experience caused him to do something foolish. The stories were retold constantly thereafter. "I just can't handle any more of this." A while later, he decided to finish out the morning and then leave at lunchtime. 
Shortly before noon, the foreman came around with paychecks. As he handed the man his envelope, he made his first civil comment to him in three weeks. "Hey, there's a woman working in the front office who knows you. Says she takes care of your kids sometimes." "Who?" He named the woman, who sometimes helped in the nursery of the church where the man and his family worshiped. The foreman then went on with his rounds. When the brick carrier opened his envelope, he found, along with his check, a handwritten note from the payroll clerk: "When one part of the body of Christ suffers, we all suffer with it. Just wanted you to know that I'm praying for you these days." He stared at the note, astonished at God's timing. He hadn't even known the woman worked for this company. Here at his lowest hour, she had given him the courage to go on, to push another wheelbarrow of mortar up that ramp. 
Dean Merrill, Another Chance, Zondervan, 1981, p. 138.
Conclusion
1.   All around us are people who are burdened, weighed down with cares, and need to be encouraged...may we relate to them as Samuel related to David...
--not allowing previous disappointments with some people to sour us on all people...
--seeing them as God sees the...
--being sensitive to God’s leadership in our lives in how we relate to them...

That’s how to be an encourager of others...